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How to Be You Paperback – February 3, 2022
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- Print length208 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherSouvenir Press
- Publication dateFebruary 3, 2022
- Dimensions5.35 x 0.71 x 8.43 inches
- ISBN-101800810032
- ISBN-13978-1800810037
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Product details
- Publisher : Souvenir Press (February 3, 2022)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 208 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1800810032
- ISBN-13 : 978-1800810037
- Item Weight : 11.3 ounces
- Dimensions : 5.35 x 0.71 x 8.43 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #11,705,720 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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Customers find the themes in the book inspiring, honest, and helpful. They also describe the author as amazing and the book as easy to grasp. Readers say it's perfect for teens, but also for anyone questioning themselves.
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Customers find the themes in the book inspiring, insightful, and life-changing. They also say the author's genuine desire to help people is clear. Readers also say that the book speaks right to the heart and soul, and is really positive in terms of thinking about being. They say the book is relatable, safe, and hopeful.
"...read that manages to present challenging self-help concepts in a relatable, safe-feeling, hopeful way...." Read more
"...In their warm, unassuming way, Jeffrey offers love and encouragement to the one who needs it most - you!“..." Read more
"...We very much appreciate the words of wisdom and a tool to explore self-identity in a world of "shoulds" and "musts." Thank you." Read more
"...Resources, exercises in this book are helpful. Thank you for writing it Jeffrey." Read more
Customers find the book easy to grasp, with a warm, unassuming way. They also say it's a very comfortable read that presents challenging self-help.
"...It's a very comfortable read that manages to present challenging self-help concepts in a relatable, safe-feeling, hopeful way...." Read more
"...In their warm, unassuming way, Jeffrey offers love and encouragement to the one who needs it most - you!“..." Read more
"...This book is simply and clearly written, and he opens himself up to share his personal experiences in life to let others know that it's OK to feel..." Read more
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Customers find the book perfect for teens, but also for anyone questioning themselves or going through struggles. They also say it would be a great gift for struggling teens in their life.
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While the book's tone and general approach to the subject matter is pitched at a young adult crowd, there is still a lot of stuff here that will benefit readers of all ages -- I'm nearly 40 and I found myself challenged and enlightened by it.
For something as short and light as it is, this is a surprisingly insightful, helpful little book. If you approach it honestly, openly, and with a willingness to meet the material halfway, you will find a lot of useful wisdom here. It's a very comfortable read that manages to present challenging self-help concepts in a relatable, safe-feeling, hopeful way. (Giving up the illusion of control, giving up the notion of "perfect", practicing forgiveness, that sort of thing.) The exercises are fun and engaging, no-pressure, and occasionally startlingly thought-provoking.
At no point does it tell you what to think, it merely encourages you to think about how you think, and examine whether those patterns are actually working for you, emotional-health-wise. Because, honestly, frequently they are not, and that's the source of a great deal of discomfort in our lives.
It treats the reader as a partner, as the authority on their own lives, and acknowledges the bravery it takes to try to be a more genuine person. I liked that it consistently agreed that it's hard work to try to grow into who you are, and that doing so is an act of great courage.
There are only two ways in which the book did not work *for me*, and they are pitfalls common to many self-help books.
First, the subject of systemic oppression and its effects on the self is beyond the scope of this book, but I still feel that a short section devoted to discussing this candidly would help make it more accessible to people who experience levels of oppression that disproportionately expose them to oppression-based violence (Black youth, LGBT+ youth, etc.) and who may feel that their very serious concerns are completely overlooked, and that their very understandable frustration and anger is being portrayed as harmful to the self, instead of a normal response to an unhealthy situation. I hope, if there is a sequel or revision, something like this could be added. Now more than ever we need to be validating young people's lack of faith in a system that is failing them spectacularly at every turn.
Second, it, like many, many, many books of its kind, doesn't really make an effort to reconcile its advice with the realities of depression and other mental illnesses -- something that people who are likely to truly need this book struggle with disproportionately. Again, I know that Jeffrey is aware of how hard mental illness is to deal with, and again, it's a big subject for a little book, but a brief discussion of it would really have kept it from feeling like I was being talked over, which at a couple of points I did.
Overall, this needs to be in every library and school library in the country. Every single one. And if you know someone you even remotely suspect might benefit from it, make sure they get hold of it. It's a genuinely helpful tool for self-exploration at any age.
“How to Be You” would be a great gift for any struggling teens in your life (and all teens are struggling in one way or another! Being a teenager is the hardest!). Don’t forget to pick up an extra copy for yourself! A joy to read.
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