On Being A Tugboat
July 28, 2020 § 181 Comments
I was going to let this anniversary go unacknowledged.
I must have known it was a big deal. I wrote it in my calendar. One year out. July 26th, the day I took the decision to sit down for a specific amount of time, on specific days every week, to write. No matter how I felt or what else was going on.
Guess what?
For one solid year I have been sitting down, for a specific amount of time, on specific days of the week to write.
I wasn’t going to mention it. But that’s just false modesty. And feeling shy about outing yourself is counterproductive when you’re in the business of writing personal essays.
You might be wondering how I did it.
I had some help. From the Tucson Writer’s Table. What we do, is write. For two hours. Together. At a table. Every Monday. After fifteen minutes of pre-work chitchat, there is no talking allowed. That’s it.
Up until COVID our companionable silences were held amidst the roar of a busy neighborhood restaurant. Now, we Zoom—to say hi and bye. In between, I write. I’m not sure what everyone else is doing. We keep our cameras off.
I have kept this Monday night date for almost 3 years. Without fail. Nothing interfered with Writer’s Table. Why, I wondered, couldn’t I duplicate this at home? Imagine, getting even more done.
But first, I needed a hanger for my office door.
I got stuck here for a while. Writing “do not disturb” on a piece of cardboard didn’t quite do justice to the commitment I was making to myself. Three weeks and a trip to Kinko’s later I had a laminated door hanger featuring my alter ego—the tugboat.
Tugboats are slow, and their pace is steady, no matter what they’re pulling along behind them. I’m slow and it’s okay. It’s all going to be okay. I can do this. I love my door hanger.
When it’s out, I’m never disturbed.
I’m never disturbed period, because I no longer try to write in the run-up to kitty feeding time.
As I moved into a less sporadic writing routine I could see how I’d undermined myself in the past by, for example, waiting to sit down until I was certain to be interrupted by a starving cat.
But there is a time of day when my personal alertness peak intersects with household quiet and that’s when I write. Even if I’d rather be doing something else.
My former habit was to be seized by inspiration, crank something out, over-edit, and stop. Until my writing partner shared some amazing thing he’d composed and asked, anything new from you?
I was episodically committed. I got used to not writing for ever longer periods until, eventually, I stopped jotting down the very thoughts that ignited these “seized by inspiration” cycles in the first place.
I’m not special. What I read in books about writing is also true for me. I have to be sitting down and doing the work, so I’m available when the story arrives.
And no, I’m not going to tell you how many hours a week I’ve added. But here’s what I think: the perfect time commitment is located midway between resentment and contentment.
I have hundreds of idea files on my computer. And a book draft. I used refer to these as “unfinished projects,” a phrase that fills me with shame and anxiety.
Today, there are no unfinished projects.
There is only what’s next.
This is new.
Because I am working steadily, I know I’ll get to the ideas and drafts that I want to finish. Eventually.
More importantly, there is always something next. Which I start while I’m still editing what came before. No more work gaps.
All of this has made me more confident and less fragile in the face of rejection. Which has also increased because, hello, I have more work to submit.
I could have scheduled writing years ago, instead of lurching between production and procrastination. But I was afraid.
Fear has helped me get to jobs on time, adhere to deadlines, remember promises I’ve made–to others. In fact, it keeps me perma-stressed, lest I forget something and cause disappointment or distress or inconvenience for another person.
And fear is what kept me from writing regularly. Fear of prioritizing myself.
By taking this scheduled time for me, I’d be less available. I’d be saying no to other people. Disappointing them. And I have. I’m here to tell you it’s possible to do that and not die.
In fact, I’m happier.
Now, I’ve had a taste of discipline. I can see that it will take even more discipline to write and edit one entire book. I’m in awe of you book-writing people.
And I’m in awe of me. In the past year I’ve written amazing stuff I can’t believe I came up with. I’ve written terrible stuff. I’ve felt really stoked to be writing all of it.
I don’t wish I was writing someone else’s story anymore.
Sitting down to write on a schedule has healed even this. I’m no longer comparing myself to writers who are writing, and publishing, the beautiful things I wish I had written. But didn’t. Because I was not yet committed to being a tugboat.
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Kirsten Voris is a contributor to the forthcoming anthology Embodied Healing: Survivor and Facilitator Voices from the Practice of Trauma Sensitive Yoga (North Atlantic Books) and her essays have appeared in Sonora Review, Hippocampus, Superstition Review, and others. Follow her on Twitter @bubbleate.
Agreed. Scheduled writing time has eased the uncertainty of these times and pacified the ache in my soul. On the other side of this, we shall still write.
Agreed. We shall still be writing, because we never thought to stop : )
we are pouring ourselves in with lots of thoughts , suppressing them. we feel embarrassment and shame to release in front of the people but the merely way to do so is writing what we feel and calm the chaos inside the heart.
Yes…
Thanks for this wonderful, inspiring essay.
Thank you for reading it, Michael : )
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I love this Kirsten! And I needed to read it right now. You give me inspiration to sit down and write, no matter what. Thanks so much!
Thank you so much for reading, Dorothy! Happy writing to you!
Happy anniversary—tugboats can move faster and with more precision than the loads they pull. That’s why they exist. You proved all that, and “the perfect time commitment is located midway between resentment and contentment.”
Another tugboat fan!
It’s easy to be a tug when you’re not collaborating with a hydroplane…
This time alone is a gift, in some ways.
Thanks for reading, Jan : )
Well, thank you! That was an inspiration. Just what I needed, especially the bit about not wishing you’d written someone else’s story, and about leaving no gaps between projects.
I can quite easily disappear into the gaps…
Thank you for reading, and happy writing to you!
Thank you
Thank you for reading, Bar. : )
Incredibly encouraging! Amen!
Happy writing!
Thank you! And you as well!
This was the perfect essay in every way. Thank you! Tugboat’s are amazing!
Agreed!
Thanks for reading, Kristen. Happy (steady and deliberate) writing to you!
Thank you!!!
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Been tryyyyying to make me a schedule during this pandemic with all the ups and downs. This gives me some hope.
Hi Jared,
Thanks for reblogging. I’m glad you’re feeling some hope!
Scheduling myself with kind attention to other needs (for fun and rest) has been key for me. Rewarding myself (with fun stickers!) has also helped.
Write on!
Always write your own story–I love it.
Thank you for reading and commenting. Happy writing to you!
Wow! Simple, practical, and inspirational. Thank you. I feel so encouraged by your story.
I, too, feel encouraged and inspired by your story. Happy anniversary and thanks for sharing!
This is such a wonderful, inspirational piece, Kristen. I hope I can find a group like yours sometime. I can’t seem to knuckle down and just put the pen to paper for stretches. When I do, sometimes it’s shite and sometimes I’m truly amazed. But it doesn’t happen by osmosis, eh?
The Tucson Table started as a result of a conversation at a writing workshop. The fact that we are there to work, not talk about or workshop our projects took a lot of fear away, for me.
It’s low stress. You will find your people, Eilene!
Kirsten
Keep looking for other writers and make your own group eventually. That’s how it starts. And usually a writers workshop is the core. So that’s my tip, Eilene!
This is beautiful. Thank you for sharing your experiences.
Thank you for reading, Barbara!
Kirsten
Thank you for sharing this post! I have just completed my 100th blog. Yet I only became consistent 6 months ago. Consistently is key and I agree we need that time to write without distractions. It’s been hard with 2 kids and a baby who always need my attention. However, I make sure to find time to write. Even if it’s in the middle of the night!
This in itself is inspiring, Azilde! Congratulations on your 100th blog post, against all odds…you’re doing it!
Kirsten
Read it all. Wow, i also find myself in the same situation. Got a lot of drafts and ideas in my mind. I just need to have a steady pace and focus one at a time. Thanks for sharing!
I am impressed by your doggedness, your failures and high points, it motivates me to ride out all the disappointment and challenges I go through in my own writings. Kudos.
Thank you so much for letting me know!
Carving out a block of time to write is so productive. The trick for me was to get up early in the morning when the rest of the world was sleeping. I’ve been able to get long stretches of time without interruptions.
Great portrait of how to find what works for you/us. Will be keeping it in mind as I work to do the same! Thank you.
Hello, pleased to meet you. My favorite time of day to write is when I first get up. Mornings seem to be my most productive time. I looked over Tucson Writer’s Table finding it most interesting. Take care.
Hi Sheryl,
Take care and thanks for reading. I’m also a morning person….especially in the summer.
x
Kirsten
I am so glad, Kirsten that you did choose to honour this anniversary with your insightful essay! It is not rocket science, is it?
During the pandemic and in spite of suffering from the constant pain I created my blog on 2nd April and have written at least 1 poem per day. On the first of June, I started my Daily Affirmations post and on July 1st I have added my Gratitude Journal post another daily post.
Thank you for the Tug boat analogy, and also the perfect time to write is “halfway between resentment and contentment.
Best regards
Carolyn Crossley
Hi Carolyn,
Congratulations on your poem-per-day! That’s amazing. You’re doing it….
The pandemic has been a real opportunity for me to look at how I normally choose to spend my time. And then adjust appropriately.
Take care and stay well!
x
I needed to hear this today. I have fallen away from my personal writing practice because I’ve been buried in grad school writing assignments.
It’s. All. My. Writing.
I want to shift my thinking to embrace the “what is next” attitude rather than lament on what has not happened.
I want my brain to stop coming up with a ready “because of…” excuse for not writing and focus on what is possible.
I think my door sign may be a graphic image of your words.
“The perfect time commitment is located midway between resentment and contentment”.
Thank you for the inspiration!
@richonhealth
Thank you so much for letting me know that this resonated with you. I need to hear from other people now, more than ever.
Have fun with your door hanger design. Don’t skimp on that step!
And good luck with graduate school…
x
Hope you don’t mind if I reboot this inspired bit of writing
Hi Bobby,
Do you mean repost? Or something else. I hope you’ll share it!
x
Sorry repost of course, sadly I am still in the early 20th C. can’t understand predictive text
Thanks. I learnt what a tugboat is from you today.
Setting sun leaving a golden red glow on the waves that endorse the mighty ships…cruising to reach thy destiny, fanatically paddling, pushing it hard.
Near the shore to amalgamate the perfect matrimony…setting the directions right despite the murmuring tug of war….the shadows are small, the chassis incomparable to what it struggles against, slow and steadily moving forward and guiding the mighty load…..small and slow…a tug boat. A representation of might and will.
Whatever is slow and small is not always week or cowardice.
Your short jotted liners are perfect match to a tug boat. Keep sailing and keep pulling along.
Thank you for this beautiful piece of writing. I don’t know if I’m allowed to reply anymore, but I tried.
x
Your vision of simplicity in describing things is amazing. Amazing….
Thank you, I needed to add fuel to my tugboat of sorts and your story helped me find that energy . Also I had heard about the writers group here in Tucson and wondered about it during this time of change.
Glad you liked the words….obliged.
At the start of my writing journey, really useful to read. Big deep breath … and off we go.
Waao!!! This is an achievement worth flaunting!!
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That’s quite a inspiring essay Kirsten.
Thank you for that!
I totally needed to read this. Not only do I procrastinate as well, have my own category of unfinished projects, relations, processed emotions, thoughts, experiences- but, I do have a fear of rejection. Being an empath, I feel rejection at my core, in turn, I feel the, tightness another feels, when they’re rejected. The feeling of, “-f•ck, the search is not over. I either have to take on this task, or, I have to bend someone else’s will.” Putting them, in the predicament, of getting out of their own, comfortable, comfort zone.. I don’t know where I am going with this, other than, momentarily, I thought, “this is a long message… how much is left.” And I scrolled down to see I had covered a majority of your very important, inspirational experience… seeing I had completed more than I thought, and had so little left, I would’ve disappointed my sleepy self not following through- not completing this project… I don’t know.. you’ve healed a part of me.. I appreciate you, Tugboat 🖤
I honor you and your will power, your grit, determination, and self-love.
You, are, worthy.
“Rejection isn’t found in creativity or innovation nor productivity but exist in lack of confidence *&* procrastination *&* only the Imagination erase the feeling of Rejection.”_-Van Prince
In essential essence your post is precious-rare-priceless=keep writing. Why?=When you write every day you are ready and don’t have to get ready=well done is better than well said, meaning>never procrastinate but create<
It is time for poets and writers to have their positive writing to be respected beyond advertisement and money from advertisement. The site is free, but nothing compliment that freedom; because it is a lure to attract writers to sell them this, that, and the other except publish their worthy content, and for those who can afford the $ extras $$ great, but those who can’t not so great. Those who are poets and writers strive and drive to have their works published to make mankind happy and make some money to help themselves and the less fortunate, but where are the publishers and those to promote one’s work.
This is amazing. And a great story to pick up lessons
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This is fantastic. As a writer myself, I’ve struggled with this. But after reading this, I probably won’t struggle with it as much now. This was exactly what I needed to hear (read).
I love this!
This is amazing …
Beautifully written. I particularly loved “…the perfect time commitment is located midway between resentment and contentment”.
This was very useful! Thanks for sharing it! 👏
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It is always a + to read top notch poetic content as this, and I look forward to reading your prose weaved into innovative make-sense interesting reading at a time when COVID-19 has so changed the nation cross cultures from normal to abnormal, and it is such posts as yours that give us hope to defeat Covid-19 and return to life as we once knew it without masks minus stress=*Keep Writing*
Congratulations on the one year!! It definitely takes a discipline to do something consistently for that long. And for two hours each time!? I thought you were going to say 15 minutes.
Thanks for sharing this, Kirsten. I could identify with so much of what you shared. I love your tug boat analogy. I too am a tug boat. I also love your perspective, how you appreciate the good and the bad writing and how nothing is ever unfinished. There is only what’s next. All the best on your onward journey. Olivia.
This is a great story.Story of self . A way for creating positive self image and confidence. I loved it.It would definitely inspire us.
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Discipline…how much I need thee!
I’m so glad I found you. Thank you, you give me courage. I write because I’m inspired to. Without formal training, I just write. Always waiting for the inspiration. I must stop waiting.
I’ve always believed and practiced what you’ve written about here. I’ve never read this in a blog before. And you’ve expressed it beautifully. Nothing happens by itself. An inspired idea needs consistent follow up and follow through to fully manifest. Inspiration is two percent. The rest is sitting down and doing it.
You’re wonderful ❤️
Well done on completing a year. I did a year of doing a sketch every day. I missed about 15 days so I know how much effort it took you to do every single day. Well done 😀
Congratulations and thank you for sharing this. I myself always want to write but I don’t do it most of the times, this has made me think what mistakes I have made and how I can correct them.
I am thankful to you for sharing and I will make sure I make a schedule that includes writing from now on.
I just wanted to ask you that , sometimes I don’t know what to write like I have some thoughts but they are very vague and generic. I can’t figure out what to write about , should it be personal experience or something informing the society I always overthink it and eventually scrap the idea. It would be really helpful if you could give me a bit of advice over it.
Thank you and once again congratulations.
Great
Thank you for sharing – I love the analogy.
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Thank you. Writing, taking classes, living out my faith, and being inspired by my husband (another writer- scholar), sustains me.
I love this so much. I completely relate, I write in brief inspired bursts which have been happening less and less. This essay is beautifully written and has some excellent advice. Thanks 👍
Well done! Your piece offers me a clear understanding of what I need to do now. Just say “no” to others & carry no guilt! :-))
Congratulations! I understand this entirely. At the moment I am up between 4 and 5am to ensure I get much needed writing time. Wonderful blog.
Thanks for such a beautiful post…
Really
Such great advice, thank you. I empathise completely.
Thanks for sharing! This has really given me the incentive to just get down to it. I am terrible about not just carving out and scheduling the time. I tend to treat it as optional and I need to treat it like any other appointment.
Nice
Loved it, so honest and inspiring
Achaaa
Quite an inspiration , thanks for sharing
Thank you so much.Really thoughtful.
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Absolutely love these inspiring words!
Nice essay, this is beautiful. I’m inspired. Keep writing 😊..
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This hit me where I am. Congratulations on making it a year!
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Thanks for this and I agree that slow and steady progress is much better than sudden outbursts, and sometimes setting a certain amount of time to doing something can be very important and effective in getting it done.
Thank you for the inspiration. I think the metaphor of being a tugboat is extremely helpful. I will remember this next time I feel behind or lost in my writing.
This was lovely.
What an amazing story and my timing coming here couldn’t have been better. Procrastination stopped me from writing over the years, so did fear of being judged. I’ve recently started a blog and I’ve decided to commit, much like you did. I’m getting too old to keep “Waiting” for the best time.
I’m not a serious writer…but the way you built this habit of writing consistently, is inspiring. I wonder what we all could achieve if we applied this in other dimensions of our lives too!
It’s really nice to read your journey to commitment. I just started writing again and still find myself in the sporadic phase, but I’m going to follow your example and try to find a ferry-schedule that works for me! Hopefully I’ll then be able to have an anniversary too. Thank you for writing :),
Greetings, Sanne
Congrats, great accomplishment!
A great accomplishment, congratulations. I wish I could say the same thing but have used too many excuses to get in the way. Still chugging along with the carrot cake in front of me.
It was really encouraging to involve into our own stories…Thanks Kirsten
Inspirational !! Also the earlier personality of yours seems akin to my present one.
It’s a wonderful piece, this.
Thankyou for this interesting n inspirational blog
You have been an amazing inspiration throughtout your write up , I hope I’d follow the same .
Thanks for sharing .
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This is so inspiring!
“Up until COVID our companionable silences were held amidst the roar of a busy neighborhood restaurant.” Love this.
Thank you for sharing this. I love your tugboat metaphor reminding us writing isn’t a race. Beautiful!
Reading your words felt like reading what is within me. I have resistef writing for years too. I am a vehement reader, probably critic butbi undermined my writing abilities too until I allowed myself to respond the voice within. Now after the explosion in my capital city Beirut, I can’t resist writing. Thank you for your inspirational essay.
*resisted, but I
You have taken a snapshot of my soul and written about it! In fact, I have just started my own blog, titled “Becoming a Writer 1 Day at a Time” so as to simply get myself writing, daily! YOUR POST was the FIRST WordPress blog I found and read! And we sound SO similar. I think the part that struck such accord with me was referring to not letting anyone else down or inconveniencing them. This is such a problem for me, to an incredibly ridiculous degree.
I love the Tugboat image. I love it when we find something to hold onto, to inspire us and to keep us moving. Beautiful article. Beautiful voice.
Wishing you the very best!
-Amanda
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This was so interesting to read!
Thank you for sharing – it’s a perspective to consider when it comes to deciding on routine versus ‘willy-nilly’ writing….
Awesome!
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Wow Kristen! This is a deeply inspiring story. It really gave me so much hope and courage! What a beautiful metaphor! Thank you for sharing something so personal. You can rest assured that it is making a difference in the lives of others as well ❤
Reading this was truly inspiring. Thanks for sharing.
Wonderful essay literally astonishing….I needed it right now
This is beautiful.
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Completely agree with you and thanks!!! I am motivated completely now!!!! (Though can’t say anything about executions 😒)
Thank you so much for this. I have been so self-critical of my writing in the early stages of anything because it has seemed that I’ll start well and then something, anything, will come along and disrupt what I think is the right number of words and then I try to add those missed words to the next period’s totals and that just fractals out to…well…shame and eventual misery. Tug boats move all the world’s sea-going goods. It’s actually quite a greater load than a plane or a train. This metaphor is going to be sticking with me. Thank you. 🙂 You may have changed a writer’s life here. 🙂 And judging by the comments, I’m in pretty good company.
I wrote for my blog yesterday for the first time in two years, and I am determined to structure more writing time for myself. This tugged at those particular heartstrings, like any good tugboat reference would! Thanks for sharing the milestone – it is definitely inspiring.
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I am about three months in to writing a post a day on my blog (I have missed a few but oh well), and I keep telling myself to write because the blog has already evolved over a short amount of time.
Inspiring article!
I liked. Thanks !
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This is one of those pieces of advice all writer’s have heard about a hundred times–and all of us need to hear it at least one more.
But it was lovely to hear it in such a lovely writerly way. (And btw good use of using writing motivation to motivate writing and motivate writers. Such multi-tasking).
Tugboat. The read was inspirational, thank you for sharing.
Agreed. Thanks for an Inspirational essay .
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So inspiring. Thank you!
Congrats!! And I would have given you credit for the DO NOT DISTURB sign😉
Very beautiful post.
This is lovely, On Being a Tugboat. What a wonderful idea!
This tugboat just tugged at my heart and soul…thank you so much for deciding every day to be disciplined in loving yourself. If you hadn’t done that, I couldn’t have just read this essay, and it is exactly what I needed to come face to face with. Once again, thank you.
Really inspiring
Thank you… just what I needed 🙂
Really enjoyed reading your post. You can check my blog here: https://gauravdey.wordpress.com/2020/10/16/al-jabr-reunion-of-broken-hearts/
we are pouring ourselves in with lots of thoughts , suppressing them. we feel embarrassment and shame to release in front of the people but the merely way to do so is writing what we feel and calm the chaos inside the heart.
The tugboat analogy was great. I think I should practice writing on a schedule soon too.
Nice. The thing I work on daily is object writing. It’s a little exercise that I got from a book on writing better song lyrics. The idea is you take any old object, a beer bottle, a cow, a rolling pin,and you write about it for 10 minutes, but the thing is everything you write has to engage sensory elements.
Happy anniversary! I always read about how people should have habits like these but i think yours is the first one where I have read that doing this regularly helped change your outlook.
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“Fear of prioritizing myself.”
I understand this feeling, though I never thought about it until seeing it written here. It probably walks hand in hand with my anxiety; the feeling I get that taking time for myself is somehow betraying my wife’s time by wanting to be apart. She wants me to write, supports my writing, and even reminds me when it’s my scheduled writing time, but there’s still this feeling. Hey, it’s anxiety, it doesn’t have to make sense.
Thanks for helping me understand another bit of myself.
Nice post, I enjoy your writing style. Calm and minimal. I have recently started journaling. I think of it as the first step to blogging in public. I can see myself improving in getting my thoughts down on paper, and it is extremely cathartic to do it. It takes courage to be vulnerable in public. Thank you for sharing.
I totally agree with you.
I love this post. It really speaks to the writer in me that’s been dying to come out but I feel like I’ve been suppressing it because there are time I go months without writing. No more excuses.
Really loved this glimpse into your writing practice, and I love the tugboat analogy! It’s perfect.
So much of finding our way in our art form is coming to that sweet spot of productivity that WORKS for us! Even if it’s different for everyone.
I recently started getting my stride back, post-second kiddo, and while it took some trial and error to figure out what a reasonable expectation was for daily work, I think I’m finally settled on something I can depend on. It’s such a great feeling!
After all, the only thing we control is the words; publications, reviews, awards are all in someone else’s hands. Congratulations on hitting your stride!
This is incredibly affirming to read, thank you for sharing! My own tug boat is just leaving port and there’s a baby on it, but this spoke to some of the same thoughts I’ve been having lately, which is very encouraging. Thank you.
This is just the kind of push that I need. Thank you for sharing!
Could get into your shoes…and feel what u felt …very well put together…the secret is perseverance and being able to speak out mind.
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Great post!
Loved it, so honest and inspiring
Quite an inspiration , thanks for sharing
Thank you for the inspiration. I think the metaphor of being a tugboat is extremely helpful. I will remember this next time I feel behind or lost in my writing.
Congrats, great accomplishment!
Wonderful essay literally astonishing
This was so beautiful. You’re inspiring me to search out a new writing group, something I hadn’t been considering. My former group disbanded after some members moved, but it may be time…
Thank you!
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